Grieving Differently
QUEERING THE STAGES OF GRIEF
Grief follows
no rules.
So why do we keep pretending it does?
Most of us have been taught that grief follows a predictable path.
But anyone who has truly loved knows better.
Grief is rarely linear. It changes us. It surprises us.
It refuses to fit neatly inside someone else's expectations.
Grieving Differently is an invitation to imagine something larger...
not just a different way to understand grief, but a different way
to understand ourselves.
Hi.
I'm Timoth
I'm a pastor, speaker, grief coach, and author.
And before any of those things...
I'm someone who loved deeply.
I'm someone who lost the love of my life.
I'm someone who discovered that grief isn't something we move through nearly as much as it is something we learn to live alongside.
Everything I create grows out of that discovery.
WAYS WE CAN JOURNEY TOGETHER
"Rev. Timoth gently guides readers through the challenging and difficult terrain of grief, reminding us that there is no correct way to griere, but what's most important is to meet ourselves with compassion and kindness regardless of how the process unfolds."
-Claire Bidwell Smith, author of Conscious Greiving
"A profound and necessary book that makes room for those whose grief has too often been unseen, misunderstood, or minimized."
- Rev. Cameron Trimble, UCC Pastor and CEO of Convergence
"Grieving Differentiy invites us to linger in our pain and our faith, embracing grief as a nonlinear journey shaped by our unique identities."
-Rev. Sam Houser, author of Queering the Psalms
Speaking
Thought-provoking, compassionate presentations for churches, conferences, colleges, nonprofits, and community organizations.
Workshops
Interactive experiences that help communities explore grief, resilience, identity, spirituality, and hope with honesty and courage.
COMING FALL 2026
Grieving Differently
QUEERING TH E STAGES OF GRIEF
A tender, honest, and courageous exploration of grief
that challenges traditional stages and offers readers
a new framework for understanding loss, love, identity,
and becoming.
Coaching
One-on-one grief companioning for people seeking a thoughtful, supportive space to navigate loss and life's ongoing changes.
There is no
right way to grieve.
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